The Gentle-Man

The Gentle-Man

How to Stop Gaslighting: The Courage to Be Free

There is a great pleasure and a great sense of being and a great sense of peace in yourself when...

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Graeme Crosskill
Nov 11, 2025
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A guide on a Gentle-Man’s DeepDive below:

  • Listen to the raw audio

  • Read the slightly refined transcript

  • Watch the extrapolation videos

  • Review and reflect

  • Run the questions for yourself (use the clearing statement - watch here)

  • Share your questions and awareness


10 Key Reflection Points and Questions:

  1. Acknowledging Your Own Gaslighting
    Reflection:
    The hardest step is recognising that you make others wrong to feel right yourself. This “rightness” is a survival mechanism that limits your life.

    Questions: Where in my life am I making someone wrong to feel better about myself? What would my life be like if I gave up needing to be right?

  2. The Choice Between Right and Free
    Reflection:
    Being right is incompatible with being free.
    Questions: What am I unwilling to give up being right about? What does being right give me? What would be possible if I chose to be free?

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